All rich people are crooks, jerks, selfish, greedy and arrogant. They flaunt their money in your face and laugh at others for being poor. Look at all the rich people in the world and ask yourself, how did they get there? The Rockefeller held a monopoly on oil and funded prohibition so cars wouldn't run on ethanol. The Kennedy's we're rum runners. Johnson and Johnson were coke dealers. Money is the root of all evil!
In his ground breaking documentary "
Born Rich" Jamie Johnson gave the world a glimpse behind the Wizard of Oz's curtain of wealth and those who inherit it. The movie shows real life events and interviews with some of the worlds wealthiest kids. Young adults who have inherited (or will soon inherit) massive fortunes passed on by their family. While I personally loved the movie and it's raw truths. It sparked waves of hatred both with financially elite and those that despise them.
Yet I felt no anger, angst or even jealousy for these young adults because it clearly showed that they too have to deal with their own problems and demons. That money didn't make them any better or worse than other people their age. That they we're after all
just kids, like you and I (once were) facing the challenges of life, family and society.
So what about the brats and douche bags they become someday? Sure they were kids with problems, that doesn't mean they have to end up as jerks right? We all have problems.
Fair enough. In truth many of them do end up quite nice, honest and decent. It's just you might not even notice them, or rather you may know them but not even know they are rich. Because the often soken and unspoken motto for society among the wealthy (In America at least) is to not talk about money. Many of the young adults in the film share that they didn't even know their family was rich until a certain age or event revealed it. Perhaps a newspaper article or a childhood friend exposes their dark secret they didn't even know.
What kind of effect would that have on a person? On a kid?
Imagine it. Imagine growing up in a normal sized house for your neighbor hood. Attending a public school with 'normal' kids. No butlers or nannies running about. No cheafuer or Mercedes Your family doesn't flaunt it's wealth. (Most of the families in the video are generations of wealth not kids of rappers and movie stars. You know people with private lifestyles who prefer to remain private.) Being treated absolutely equal and un-special by your peers, teachers and friends.
Until someday, perhaps someone recognizes your father in article about a large donation. Or a teacher asks if your last name is connected with such and such business.
Suddenly your world is turned upside down. People who didn't even notice you before now resent you for your wealth. Teachers and coaches are now watching you at arms length to see "Is this kid different than the others" "Is he a spoiled brat" "Is his wealth the cause of his actions". Perhaps friends who once seemed close now begin to distance themselves not because they don't like who you are, but are uncomfortable with all the attention and hostility that comes from others by just being around you.
Could wealthism (A prejudice towards someone for their financial class) be even more insidious and dangerous than racism to a childs development? I truly mean no disrespect to the serious problem racism has been and continues to be. But hear me out....
A child born Black or Jewish didn't choose to be born and raised the way they were either. They grow up knowing that several times in their life they will encounter great hatred and prejudice from someone not for who they are or the choices they made, but for what they were born as. And when that day comes, society will be there to support them. To tell them it's ok, that "the prejudice person was wrong and unjust". That society no longer condones that kind of prejudice and hate. Not for something you born into. You we're born Black or Jewish and today's news, school and society has your back. So stand proud and overcome it. Use it to push yourself forward toward success!
So where can the "rich kid" turn when his classmates and teachers distance them? When bullies hound them?When 'fake friends' appear liking them for what they have and what they can give them not for who they are? Worst of all, will they even see it coming? Will they have time to brace themselves for the impact? Or will it just hit them someday
like running into a brick wall, when a classmate points out that the museum their visiting has their name it?
Society today puts a great deal of pressure, attention and blame on those with wealth. Whether they acquired it or inherited it. But it's our actions, our perceptions of wealth and wealthy people that have led to their private nature and secrecy. Who want's to talk about money when it changes the perception of you to anyone you talk to? Who would want to talk about money when the mere mention of it, and how much you have could illicit quiet calm hateful eyes, loud angry blaming or even warm smiles of deceit? Isn't this a lot for any young adult to bear, isn't it too much?
And if they complain will someone rub their shoulder? Or just tell them to suck it up and stop acting like a spoiled whiny rich brat?